265: Learn to Say NO (to even some good things!) with Dorie Clark

If you love hearing from women who support others on their leadership journey, then today’s show is a treat for you. My guest will inspire you with tips, advice, and insights into success, positive thinking, and goal setting. Join us!

Dorie Clark is a true internet superstar. She helps people get their ideas heard in a crowded, noisy world, and she’s been honored with awards too numerous to count. Dorie has written the #1 leadership book, Stand Out, and her new book, The Long Game, will be available soon. She is a former presidential campaign spokesperson, frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review, consultant, speaker, graduate of Harvard Divinity School, producer of a Grammy-winning jazz album, and Broadway investor. The New York Times describes Dorie as an “expert at self-reinvention and helping others make changes in their lives.”

Music Credit: My good friend Lindsay Katt – https://lindsaykatt.bandcamp.com/track/stick-by-me 


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Show Highlights:

  • The beginning of Dorie’s creative journey in a family that encouraged multiple interests and endeavors

  • How Dorie left for early college at age 14 for more independence and intellectual freedom

  • Dorie’s multi-hyphenate titles: consultant, professional speaker, executive coach, author, business school professor, online course creator, musical theater writer and investor, and aspiring ping-pong master

  • How Dorie manages time and energy by factoring in “opportunity costs” and learning to say NO to even some good things

  • How to make decisions and not live with FOMO and regret

  • How to structure your calendar to reduce overwhelm with “manager” days and “maker” days

  • How Dorie plans tasks according to energy level peaks throughout the day

  • Why Dorie never gets “stuck”

  • How Dorie replenishes herself with creative energy by playing ping-pong

  • How to guard against failure - and the crippling fear of failure

  • How Dorie’s book, The Long Game, teaches long-term thinking with provisional hypotheses

  • Great advice Dorie received from Marshall Goldsmith: “Keep coming back and teaching yourself new things, no matter how successful you become.”

  • How our community can support and nourish us

  • How Dorie finds herself in the middle of a ten-year goal initiated in 2016 to write a show that makes it to Broadway

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